- I don't really want to (and can't afford) to buy a shower present and a wedding present.
- I don't really want to book off all this time for someone that I am not really close with when I could be using time off to spend with other friends who I am closer to.
- It kinda irks me that she sends me an invite and I only have 3 weeks to respond. I thought maybe she only invited me cause space freed up but I know other people who havent gotten theirs yet either so it turns out she is just really not organized.
- Reasons for going to the wedding or shower is that I would see other girls I haven't seen for a long time and it would be kinda cool to be together as a group again..I feel there is a better chance of this happening at the shower/wedding than the stag and doe as those are more important.
So I'm 99% sure I don't want to go to the wedding, so I am just deciding if I should go to the stag and doe, or the shower, or both of those. What do you guys think??